Dear SS,

Here's an interesting fact. The average amount that most men ejaculate is only a teaspoon or two. Definitely not massive loads! Additionally, the amount of ejaculation varies from man to man.

Sure there are pills you can take to ejaculate more. That's definitely Peter North's claim to his ejaculative fame. A lot of companies that sell these products on the Internet aren't the most reputable - they make claims that aren't usually true. Plus, you don't know what's in their products.

Although I'm not a doctor, my advice would be to take zinc and lecithin supplements - most "ejaculative" pills on the market have both of these ingredients. It's way less expensive than mail-order drugs. Just make sure you don't go overboard with the zinc - it can be hazardous to your health. For some men, this combo can increase their load. Also, drinking more water can help - being hydrated helps the body function at peak performance.

A way to naturally increase your load would be to masturbate less or have less sex. This can cause build-up. The more times you ejaculate, the less sperm comes out (it's also less dense). That's why male porn stars do everything they can not to cum until "the money shot". Some don't even have sex for days before.

A second method would be to masturbate until right before you cum, then stop. Do this a half hour before you have sex and your load could potentially be huge. Of course, this can make for extremely short sex sessions.

Since you're a fan of cumshots, you might want to check out Jules Jordan's Feeding Frenzy #8, Red Light's Cum Dumpsters #6, Acid Rain's Gag on This #9, and Exquisite Media's Cream Filled Asses #2.

Hope this helps!

Love, Betty

Dear Cookie,

I think it's important to explain to our readers what a cream pie is, because not everyone is as porn savvy as you! A cream pie is an internal cum shot when a guy comes in a woman's vagina or anus (as opposed to the usual facial). Usually, this is followed by a camera close up of cum dripping from the hot girl's orifice. An oral cream pie is the same idea—it's just a guy cumming in a girl's mouth.

Since you're a fan of the open mouth facial, I would suggest you check out Mike John's No Cum Dodging Allowed #1 starring Katja Kassin and Mercedes - every scene has multiple open mouth facials. Also check out Zero's Tolerance's Face Invaders, Platinum X's Semen Gobblers #2, and Red Light's Cum Coat My Throat - all feature cum hungry hotties who just can't get enough.

Happy viewing!

Love, Betty

Dear SC47,

Girl-on-girl flicks are a great turn-on and a personal favorite of Betty's. From the tame to over the top, WantedList has a great selection of all girl titles with lots of the variety you're seeking.

Cousin Stevie's Pussy Party flicks are always a good time. Check out his latest, Cousin Stevie's Pussy Party #17: Dark Chocolate Vanilla Cream staring Sierra Sinn, Veronica Jett and Jada Fire. This gonzo masterpiece features couples, foursomes, orgies, and strap on dildo action.

Danni's The Boobs of Hazzard 2 is another one to definitely watch. Stunning beauties Jezebelle Bond, Celeste Star, Mackenzie Mack, and Carli Banks engage in clit play, strut around in sexy outfits, and break out the glass dildos. Don't miss this one! If you like this one, you should also check out the original The Boobs of Hazzard—always a classic.

Red Light's Be My Bitch 2 has an S&M edge. Porn hotties Kimberly Kane, Delilah Strong, Hailey Page, and a bevy of other babes engage in leg worship, dildo BJs, toe licking, crawling on leashes and sharing double dong dildos. Pure heaven.

If you like it rough, Belladonna: Fetish Fanatic 2 might be just what you're looking for. Jenna Haze, Belladonna, Sandra Romain and Dana Vespoli take on inflatable butt plugs, anal beads and paddles serving as dildos. Jade Hsu does an amazing reverse cowgirl with her pink dildo. Another one not to be missed.

And lastly, I would recommend Digital Sin's I Like Big Toys #3. The title says it all - toys, toys, and more toys. Brandy Talore, Victoria Sweet and Savannah Stern get busy with large dildos and show us that sometimes size does matter.

Love, Betty

Dear Steve,

Glad to hear you and your wife are enjoying the pleasures of anal sex. Anal sex is a tricky thing and has to be done properly.

• The first thing I would ask is if you're using enough lube? Is it water-based? Lubrication is key in anal sex to help avoid soreness and potential tearing of delicate tissues. Astroglide and KY Jelly are popular choices. Never use olive oil, Vaseline or other slippery liquids not intended for sex and/or anal sex. Many of my girlfriends like desensitizing lube that contains Benzocaine, a numbing agent that's long lasting. If you check out the toy portion of our site, we carry Boi Toyz Anal Desensitizing Lube.
  
• Secondly, using your fingers and/or sex toys to get her in the mood can cause soreness if not done properly. If you're inserting your fingers in her anus, make sure that your fingernails are properly trimmed, smooth, and most importantly clean. When inserting a dildo (or other sex toy) in her ass, make sure it's soft, fflexible (as opposed to being stiff), and lubed up. It's always best to use toys that are intended specifically for anal use.
  
• Thirdly, make sure you start out slow. Many men think they can just get in there and go, but life is seldom like porn (those girls use butt plugs for several days before their anal scenes). When you insert your penis into her anus, make sure you give the muscles time to adjust and relax.
  
• And lastly, try having anal sex with her laying face down—this will decrease the pressure on her anus and should alleviate the pain and/or soreness.

Hope this helps! Betty