Dear C,

Yes, Dear Betty has had her share of threesomes. So, I can understand why you and your wife want to the plunge into the world of ménage-a-tois.

The trick to making threesomes work is usually involving the man and the woman in the relationship. When my ex and I used to want a threesome, we would go out to bars, nightclubs and strip clubs. I would usually talk to the other girl. Why? Because, it puts the new/other girl at ease. If a guy does all the talking, it could creep the 2nd girl out. Or, she might think you're forcing your girl into a three way and that she doesn't really want it.

As for the online thing, you both need pics up if you're going to be on a site like Adult Friend Finders. Or, you need to write in the ad that you'll send the interested party photos by email. If I was a girl answering your ad, I would need to see pictures of you to make sure that I was attracted to you both (chemistry counts) and that it wasn't going to be some weird situation like a gangbang or rape situation. I have had a lot of luck on a site run by a guy named Craig. You can post an ad for free in the Casual Encounters section and ask them to send a photo first. If you are cool with the girl, you can send her both your photos and go from there.

In the meantime, why not wet your appetites with some movies featuring threesomes?! I would first suggest an educational film from the Queen of Sex Ed, Nina Hartley. Watch Adam & Eve's Nina Hartley's Guide to Threesomes: Two Girls and a Guy, and you won't seem like amateurs. Shane's World's College Guide to Threesomes starring Penny Flame, Taylor Hilton, Michelle Maylene and Kinzie Kenner is definitely a wild ride.

And for the hottest action of all, check out Sin City's Never-ending Threesomes—this 5-disc set is a who-who of some of the biggest porn names including Monica Sweetheart, Hannah Harper, Monica Mayhem, Chloe Dior and a cavalcade of other luscious starlettes. This flick definitely proves that 3 is never a crowd.

Good luck with your adventure!

Love, Betty

Dear Steve ,

Anal sex has to be consensual, but it also has to be done right. And doing it the right way may be the way to seal the deal for you. First, tell your wife about the pleasure that anal sex will give her. There are tons of nerve endings in your anus that can give you huge amounts of pleasure—even more so than regular vaginal sex. To get her in the mood, educate her. Check out Access Instructional Media's Best of Oral & Anal and watch it together.

Next, you and your wife should go on our site and purchase a starter butt plug. These are small and used properly with lube, they can stretch your wife's ass. Then, she will be comfortable once you actually do the deed. The Colt Anal Trainer Kit is a great set. You can start off small and work your way up from there. Always remember that lube is your friend. You will want to use anal lube—and lots of it. Try Moist Anal Lube or Anal Lube in Original Formula. We also carry butt plugs that vibrate, which can add a whole new dimension of pleasure for your wife. Lacey's Small Pink Vibrating Butt Plug would be my suggestion, if she's game.

After you've gotten her into anal play, you can go for the real thing. Make sure her anus and your dick are properly lubed up. Then, gently and very slowly put your penis in her ass. Work your way slowly and realize that it may take you a few or several sessions before you can get your penis all the way in. Remember going slowly is the key. Stop if she tells you that she is uncomfortable or it hurts. Try it another day and keep trying until it's satisfying for you both.

And lastly, here's a tip for you. Anal sex in real life is very different than what you see in porn. Those porn starlettes have had a lot of anal experience and have more than likely had a very large butt plug up their ass for days. That's why those porn guys can just stick their dicks right up these girls' asses and pound them hard.

Good luck!

Love, Betty

Dear Dan,

I first want to tell you that all the girls in our movies are at least 18. But some of them do appear to look younger. That being said, I can recommend a few flicks for your viewing pleasure.

They may not be teenagers, but they look young. Black Ice's Big Ass Slumber Party with a young, smoking hot Jada Fire is a good one. Continue your adventures with Big Ass Slumber Party #2 starring Cherokee, Beauty Dior and a bevy of other young hotties. And lastly, check out Bacchus TTV's Black All Girl Pussy Party #2 with Xtacee, Dynasty, Honey Love and Mocha.

And if you like seeing young Black girls masturbating and/or playing with toys, check out Madness Pictures' 12 Nasty Black Girls Masturbating #3 with Jenna Brooks, Promise and Lady Armani. You also might like Vengeance XXX's Toys in Da Hood with Mya Mason and Candace Von.

Happy viewing!

Love, Betty

Dear BD,

There are lots of attractive, younger men in porn these days. Gone are the hairy, fat guys. More women are watching porn and they want attractive guys to fulfill their fantasies. Of course everyone has different tastes in what they consider attractive, so I'll suggest men of different flavors to you.

Jean Valjean is a long-haired French man who makes the ladies swoon for more than just his accent. And, in Vivid's Tera Patrick's Fashion Underground he actually speaks French. He has starred with some of the biggest starlettes in porn, including Tera Patrick, Jenna Haze and Jesse Jane. You can also catch him in Vivid's Auditioning, Digital Playground's Deeper 2 and Adam & Eve's Double Trouble.

Dark haired, blue-eyed Jerry is another export. This hot Czech is an up and cummer to porn and is definitely showing up in a lot of movies. Watch him in Jules Jordan Video's Jenna Haze Dark Side, Shane's World's College Invasion #7 and Sex Z Pictures' America's Next Top Porn Model.

And hailing from Las Vegas, check out Mr. Pete who is a dead ringer for Eminem. You can watch him perform in Sin City's Ass Stretchers and Zero Tolerance's Strip Tease Then Fuck #7. In Mr. Pete Is Unleashed #8, Mr. Pete not only stars but directs.

He's young enough to be one of Joanna's Angels, but wasn't the right sex. Ms. Angel has used James Deen in several of her movies (he is rumored to be her boyfriend in "real life"), including Joanna's Angels, Joanna's Angels 2 and Joanna Angel's Guide to Humping. You can also catch James in 3rd Degree Films' Head Case and Red Light District's Wasted Youth.

If you like alternative looking guys, check out Jack Spade (who also goes by the name Jack Bravo). This scruffy green-eyed babe will make you melt. Check him out in Spice Studios' MILF Cruiser #1 and Sex Z Pictures' Just Legal.

And lastly, if you like heavily tatted up and pierced guys, you might like Rob Rotten. He's been in several flicks, including Burning Angel's Cum on My Tattoo, VCA's Kill Girl Kill #3 and Vivid's The New Devil in Miss Jones.

Good luck!

Love, Betty