Dear L,

Yeah, men as slaves are hot. And very nice that you have a husband who let you have your way with him like that. Most bondage flicks are about women being dominated by men, but I was able to find a few that aren't.

First off, I would suggest Nina Hartley's Guide to Sensual Domination #1. This movie is not only educational, but titillating. Many men are afraid of being dominated, but this flick not only addresses this stigma but squashes it. Nina Hartley and Chris Cannon explore safe words, flogging and worship. The scenes aren't too rough and there's a definite chemistry between the two. Scene 2 with Amber Michaels and Frank Fortuna does a great job of blending sensuousness and domination.

Bizarre's Making of a Mistress features 3 scenes of women dominating men—the 4th scene is two chicks. Storyline revolves around Tiffany Mynx coming to Mistress Midori to become a Dominatrix. The guys in this movie are subjected to flogging, electric shock, along with clothespins and mousetraps attached to their balls as devices of pain. Well done and everyone looks like they are enjoying themselves.

Demolition Video's Pantyhose Bondage is about Slave Randy's devotion to Mistress Camille. Pantyhose and foot worship, along with flogging, electrical torture and the art of being bound are featured here.

And if you want to make your own bondage movies at home, I would suggest a few sex toys that are must-haves. The 13” Pleasure Latex Whip will definitely make your husband squeal with delight. Of course, he'll need a little pleasure to go with that—pick up the Whipper Tickler to cool him off. And if you want to go full-tilt, you might want to restraint him to the bed. Sportscuffs in black are comfortable, yet heavy duty.

Good luck, Dominatrix Lady L.

Love, Betty

Dear Chocolate Blonde:

ATM is an abbreviation for Ass to Mouth. Wikipedia defines the acronym as "a colloquial term for the removal of the penis from the passive partner's anus followed by the immediate insertion of the penis into the passive partner's or another partner's mouth." Your question isn't stupid—lots of people think it's just an abbreviation for a cash machine. But, now you're in the know.

If you'd like to check out some porn flicks featuring ATM, I can suggest a few. Acid Rain has a trilogy of movies called ATM City. ATM City #1, the original, stars the lovely (yet depraved) Mika Tan, Victoria Sin, Nicki Hunter and Melissa Lauren. ATM City #2 is a wild ride with some wild babes including Audrey Hollander, Missy Monroe, Tory Lane and Veronica Jett. And to complete the trilogy, check out ATM City #3 starring blonde bombshells Tatianna Stone and Brooke Haven, along with nasty girl Naomi.

And lastly, you might want to add Platinum X's ATM POV to your queue. Starring hottie Hungarians, Trinity, Caroline De Jaie and Maria Bellucci, this movie might make you want to try a little ATM during your sexy time.

Enjoy,

Love, Betty

Dear Dan,

Men throughout the ages have had problems with women swallowing. Most women will swallow or they won't. Some women go as far as to say that if a man can swallow his own cum, then they'll do it. Many men are skeeved by this, so they just accept that their babe won't swallow.

Yes, there are products that you can buy that will enhance the taste of your cum. In the toy section of our website, we have Lexa Oral Blast Mint Gel. This 4 oz. tube of menthol-flavored mint gel loosens and numbs your chick's throat so she can give you a world-class BJ. And since you can't make your cum taste like candy, you might want to get some Sweetened Blow. This watermelon-flavored gel tastes so yummy that she will beg you to cum in her mouth. And banana-flavored Peter Licker will make her go ape. It also doubles as a lubricant.

Additionally, I would suggest making changes in your diet to make your man juice taste better:

• Try cutting out milk and/or dairy products along with cauliflower, broccoli, and asparagus.
  
• Garlic and onions can produce strong odors—a lot of what we taste is based on the smell. Well, you get the idea.
  
• Are you a smoker? Do you drink a lot? Cutting out cigarettes and lowering your alcohol consumption can help.
  
• I have heard guys swear by pineapple. They say it makes their cum taste sweeter.
  
• Have your girl suck on Altoids. The minty-fresh flavor will already be in her mouth and may overtake the cum taste. Having her brush her teeth may also have the same effect.

Love, Betty

Dear Tracy,

Sometimes, I like a little flash in my porn, as well. As for pirates, there is that award-winning, big budget swash buckling adventure on the high seas (and dry land), Pirates from Digital Playground. And your favorite porn stars dress in pirate regalia including Jesse Jane, Tommy Gunn, Evan Stone, Devon, Teagan Presley, Janine and Carmen Luvana. VCA's High Desert Pirates is another one you might want in your queue—it stars Avy Scott, Taylor Rain, Jynx and other wenches who will leave you wet.

Most princesses aren't actually royalty although they hold titles like Anal Princess, Mafia Princess, Daddy's Little Princess or Latin Princess. I did find one movie where the princess actually dresses the part. In Wicked's Space Nuts, Princess Hubba Hubba (played by Stormy Daniels) and her friends dress like Star Wars characters. This plot-driven romp features Katie Morgan, Kaylani Lei, Devinn Lane, and Jessica Drake.

And for your last wish of girls in harems, check out Wicked's Arabian Nights for some genie action. Watch the caravan of Porsche Lynn, Sierra, Christina Dior and Jenna Wells having sex in the desert. And for more sultans and their harems, watch VCA's 1001 Erotic Nights. This lavish tale features lust, virgins and orgies. Stars Lisa De Leeuw, Mai Lin and Annette Haven.

Hope this helps!

Love, Betty