Dear Tony:

You've taken the phrase taking one for the team to a whole new level. I have to give you kudos for catering to your wife's desires. But seriously…is this sucking another man's cock and being fucked in the ass with a strap on something you really want to do? Really think about this one. Maybe, it's a secret desire you've locked away. If that's the case, I'm here to help.

As for getting in the mood to suck another man's cock, I would suggest some of our bi-sexual movies. Watch Legend's Naughty Bi Nature #6, Adam & Eve's Fine Bi Me Too! and/or All Worlds' Read Bi All. These movies will give you a very clear picture of what this adventure will be like.

And for a few strap on flicks, check out Legend's Strap On Maids and Smash Pictures' Strap On My Man —these 2 are definitely a wild ride. And if you're looking for an education in Strap On 101, check out Shane's World's Guide to Strap On Sex —it's got hot porn chicks like Katja Kassin and Sandra Romain and is presented with a sense of humor (yes, you might even find yourself laughing).

A word of caution about butt plugs…start out small. I would suggest a starter butt plug such as the Anal Explorer —it's small, made of soft latex and vibrates. Then, graduate to a bigger butt plug such as the Enspiral Swirl Top Butt Plug before you take on the whole enchilada of a strap on. For a strap on, I would suggest the Heart Strap On Harness by Sport Sheets —it included the silicone dong and is cute (with a heart on it) so you might be a little less intimidated when she goes to put it on.

Good luck! And, remember to have fun.

Love, Betty

Dear Mr. T:

You think you're a freak right? I hate to break it to you, but this behavior is totally normal. Yep. In fact, some 21-28 year males masturbate up to 10 times a day. The amount you personally masturbate can depend on how often you're having sex and of course, your sexual drive. With masturbating there are no rules—it's about how much you like to go at it. So, get over the guilt and be glad you're a sexual being.

Now, if you want to make your experience a little more pleasurable, you might want to pick up a few toys. Toys are no longer just for women. They can give you a helping hand and/or can even extend your orgasms. Blowjob simulators are great for this. You might want to pick up Senso Lips —it makes you feel like there's a girl down there (just don't forget the lube). Masturbators also make a great addition to the fun. A lot of guys like the Jill Kelly Futurotic Lips —it's very stretchy, has a small opening for a tight fit and it vibrates. You will find it more than gets the job done.

Hope this helps!

Love,
Betty

Dear John:

You are talking about The Devil in Miss Jones #3, which we have on DVD. This movie is a classic and a must own. It also stars old school hotties Vanessa Del Rio, Erica Boyer and Amber Lynn. Ron Jeremy and Tom Byron also make appearances. And since you are a fan of Paul Thomas, you should check out The New Devil in Miss Jones from Vivid starring Jenna Jameson. Thomas directed the film made 25 years after the original Devil in Miss Jones.

Happy viewing!

Love, Betty

Dear G:

Wow, she burnt her egg vibe out. Nice. You might want to get her more than one toy, in that case.

The Beyond 2000 HS3 Ribbed Bullet in red is very popular. This high tech toy throbs, pulsates and has multiple speeds—it's the Cadillac of eggs. Additionally, you might want to pick her up the Mega Blaster —the name says it all. It also comes with a jelly cock ring, so you can join in the fun, too. Oh, and this egg is discrete, so your girl can take it on the road with her (this is something that can definitely make your commute to work more enjoyable).

Now, if you want to take things to a new level for her…you should get her a rabbit. The Decadent Indulgence 2 has over 300 function and glows in the dark—this toy is amazing! Another hot item would be the Hitachi Wand. Although it's been around for over 30 years, it's still one of the ultimate toys to own. And, many porn stars swear by it, along with some of the characters from Sex in the City. With over 5000-6000 vibrations per minute and extra attachments, your girl will be in heaven!

I hope this helps!

Love,
Betty