Dear L Girl:

Some people have been with 100 people and never had the Big O. It helps to know your own body—once you know what makes you orgasm, you can tell someone else what you need. Start with your hands and use some lube. Experiment and find out what makes you tick. You might find out right away. Or, it might take you awhile to hit your stride.

Then, I would suggest something simple like a toy to hit your G-Spot like the G-Spot Vibrator Kit or a G-Spot Probe. With a little lube and one of these toys, you will definitely be able to get yourself there. Then, when it comes time for sex, you will know how to replicate it. You can always make using toys a two-person event, as well.

Additionally, you can try touching more than one body part at a time—like playing with your pussy and tits at the same time. Of course, this is a two-handed adventure.

And, some people swear by Keigel exercises (these help build up your vaginal muscles) or Benwa Balls for increasing the intensity of your orgasms.
Hope this helps!

Love, Betty

Dear G:

A lot of guys have issues with condoms. So, you're not alone. We live in a world where people aren't always truthful about what diseases they have, so you are definitely acting responsibly to use condoms. That being said, you still need to find an answer to your problem of staying hard while using a condom. I can suggest a few things.

The first thing is the condom itself. Are you buying the right size? If you're a big guy, you can't squeeze into a small condom—you'll need to go for the Magnum size. And most importantly, are you putting the condom on correctly? If you are struggling with it, it could mean you are putting it on upside down. Take your time and leave some room at the top (if it doesn't have a reservoir tip) to catch your cum.

Also, they make very thin condoms. Some of the guys I have been with have even claimed it's the closest thing to not even wearing one. On our site these condoms are called sensitive, because they are. Try the Contempo Bareback or the Avanti Super Thin.

A few other tricks you can try would be having your girl go down on you first and then have her put the condom on for you—this can be quite sensual and take your mind off of things. Or, you can buy condoms with texture (those little nubby things) and turn them inside out. Then, you will get extra stimulation on your penis and be even more pleasured.

Use one or all of these ideas and I'm sure condoms will be less of an issue.

Love,
Betty

Dear Jimbo:

I hate to tell you but most men do find heels to be very sexy. Porn is made with men in mind. And if they didn't find it sexy, it wouldn't be in movies.

What I can see is that you have a foot fetish, my friend. And, we have lots of movies that will definitely make you happy. Kick Ass Pictures' Barefoot Confidential #45 is a foot movie that features only bare feet—no sky high heels here. And did I mention their toes are painted?! And if you like that check out other flicks in the series that we have for rent.

Zero Tolerance's Victory Over De Feet is another bare foot romp that features hotties with high arches being foot worshipped and toe fucked. Big Top's Heels ‘N Hose XXX features some incredible leg and foot play. And lastly, pop Smash Pictures' Stocking Secrets in your DVD player. These babes definitely know how to rock some fishnets and take them off. For more movies, check out the Foot genre on the main home page.

Have fun!

Love, Betty

Dear J:

Yes, we have movies with women being fucked by machines. This usually involved a device called a Sybian, which take a woman's orgasm to a whole new level without the help of a man. You can get one of your very own on our site for your personal use. They run about $1,300 and sell out fast. But, you asked for movies.

First, you will want to check out TightFit's Sex & The Sybian features nine hot porn stars including Lexi Bardot, Gianna, Aaliyah Jolie and Lexi Love going for a different kind of ride. This gives the word cowgirl a whole new meaning.

Seymour Butts' Orgasamatic features girls taking on the Sybian and winning with some of the most amazing orgasms (including squirting) caught on film. Watch girl after girl climb up and take on the bad boy.

Digital Sin's I Love Big Toys is a girls-only flick that has 3 Sybian scenes along with some monster glass dildos. Victoria Sweet and Tory Lane show us how it's done.

And lastly, if you like Anime/Hentai, check out Black Widow's The Princess Has Come of Age. The Princess fucks a robot. How's that for a machine?! She also takes on a rubber woman doll and a plant!

Enjoy!

Love,
Betty