Dear Tony :

I am very impressed that you are not just shoving your dick (all the way in her ass) and going for it, like some guys do. You are starting off nice and slow, letting her ease into the experience.

I think you're going about it in the right way, but I would suggest that you maybe invest in a butt plug kit. They have kits that go from starter (very small) to large sized. That way you will have all the sizes on-hand as you work your way up. This is how the porn stars are able to take such big cocks—they start out small and increase the size of the butt plug. Then, they are ready for their on-screen anal scenes. I would suggest that you pick up My First Anal Kit - this kit has a small butt plug and can vibrate. Your girl will lose her mind. Then, I would suggest you get the Dr. Joel Kaplan Anal Dilator Kit —it comes with 3 different sized plugs so you can train her ass to be ready for you to enter her. And don't forget whether using your finger or a butt plug, use lots of lube. I like Astroglide —always a classic!

As for the watching movies with anal toys involved…that was another good idea on your part. We have quite a few of those. In Jules Jordans' Ass Worship #4, Ayana Angel, Friday, Katja Kassin and Austin O'Reilly are pleasured with anal beads, dildos and butt plugs while being fucked and/or just for sport. It's a Jules Jordan movie—what more can I say?! In Third Degree's Crack Addict #3, you get a lot of anal play and a scene where Melissa Lauren takes an enormous black butt plug while doing 2 guys and it's pretty amazing.

In Gina Lynn's Fantasstic Whores #3, sex toys are inserted quite freely (and frequently) into the asses of Naomi and Flower Tucci. And lastly in Voyeur Media's In Thru The Back Door #3, Ricki White, Maya Gates, Leah Jaye are all assaulted with anal beads, giant dildos, and double dongs while being fucked.

Hope this helps!

Love, Betty

Dear TS:

So, you and your wife are a fan of blondes and you aren't fans of girls eating cum (either off a spoon or a guy) and spitting. Betty is not a fan of the spitting either. What ever happened to a girl's best friend, lube. But anyways, we do have some movies that might interest you. I would suggest feature films—they usually have 1 or more hot blondes and none of the too out there stuff.

Digital Playground's Pirates features Jesse Jane, Devon, Carmen Luvana and Janine. Yes, four hot blondes and some pirates plundering on the high seas. And if you like high quality, we have this flick on HD and Blu-Ray. Adam and Eve's Eden is a tropical romp with amazing scenery and blonde babes like Carmen Luvana, Courtney Cummz and Bree Olsen—you will definitely not want to leave this island.

And if you're looking for the perfect blonde maid, check out Tawny Roberts and Nicole Sheridan in Vivid's House Keeper. And you won't find more hot blondes than in Digital Playground's Babysitters (also available in HD and Blu-Ray) including Jesse Jane, Gina Lynn, Teagan Presley, Sammie Rhodes, Nikki Benz and Angie Savage—this movie is not only hot, but has an interesting storyline.

For girl on girl flicks, I would recommend Diabolic's All About Me featuring stunning foxes like Bree Olsen, Heather Gables, Eve Lawrence, Savanah Gold, Nikki Kane and Fayth Deluca all fucking themselves and each other. Next, check out Private Lesbian #3: Lolitas In Paradise starring Nikki Sun, Jennifer Love, Carla Cox and Cindy Dollar—smoking hot blondes on a tropical island. Enough said. And lastly check out Digital Sin's Jenna Goes Solo featuring Jenna Jameson, Alexis Malone, Jana Cova and Bree Olsen all pleasuring themselves—this one will definitely get you both off.

Happy Viewing!

Love,
Betty

Dear Xavier:

Why is the love not there for your wife anymore? Is she frigid? Or are you just not doing it for her anymore? You didn't give me too much information here. My advice to you is to try to rekindle the flame. At one point your wife must have been really into sex, otherwise you two would have never married. What you need to do is not only bring back the romance, but the fire. Things could be so hot that you might think you are with another woman and not your wife. What you need is some Betty strategy:

• Buy her some lingerie. Women dig that and it always makes us feel even sexier. I would suggest the Bra and Panty set — it looks great on many women, petite or plus-sized. You could even pair them up with Black Latex Stockings . A Fishnet Top With G-String is also sizzling hot for the bedroom.
  
• Have you tried watching porn with her? Step away from the computer and watch it together. If she is willing, you'll both get extremely turned on. Well and you know the rest. Some chick- friendly porn is always best. I would suggest Vivid's Debbie Does Dallas..Again—it's got cheerleaders and Hillary Scott. Or maybe one with an interesting plot like Vivid's 59 Seconds—then she might not even realize she's watching a porn. Well, at some point she will but there will be something in there you both will enjoy. A lot of couples really enjoy Wicked movies—they feature some of the hottest girls in porn, are shot well and have some pretty good storylines—check out Love Always, Curse Eternal, Reform School Girls and Compulsion.
  
• How about a little education and titillation? Pick up a copy of the Karma Sutra, the oldest porn book ever (yes, it's thousands of years old). Leave it on the bed or under her pillow. She's bound to be curious and want to try out some of the positions in the book. It's a beautiful book (bound in silk) and if it weren't so kinky, you could leave it out as a coffee table book.
  
• Play a sex game together. Check out the Games category under Couples Kits in our toy section. The Bed of Roses Deluxe Edition is a nice way to bring you closer together—it's not a game, but it's definitely playtime. I also recommend the Jumbo Fantasy and Strip Dice — throw the dice and win, win here.
  
• Toys. Yes, I love it when a man buys me a toy and wants to use it with me. That tells me that he has a high confidence level, is not intimidated by it and knows it will never replace him. Really. I would say definitely pick her up Doc Johnson's Lucid Dream Vibe —this is my FAVORITE toy, hands down. Or she might like the Couples Pleasure Vibrator that is great for solo or together action. You can put it more than one hole/orifice at a time and it's quite decadent. Maybe high tech is what she needs. Check out the Hitatchi Magic Wand —it's a classic that is the Cadillac of vibes.

Good luck!

Love, Betty